REBUILD Pathway

Free live masterclass · The Mirror Moment

You didn't lose your identity all at once.
In 60 mins you can rebuild it.

For women and men who look fine from the outside but know they are not living as themselves.

Cost

Free

Date

Announced soon

Duration

60 mins

Where

Live Zoom

Takes under a minute. I'll email you personally the moment the next date is confirmed, before it goes out anywhere else.

Reflection in a mirror

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered where you went?

Perhaps the answer lies in the pain you can name.

I like to imagine there are four doorways.
Each doorway represents a different kind of pain.
Whichever doorway you entered through, you eventually find yourself in the same room. The room where you will rebuild who you truly are.

Four Doors. One Room.

Relationships & Heartbreak

Somewhere along the way, you became so focused on holding the relationship together that you slowly let go of yourself. You adapted, compromised, stayed quiet, and forgot the person you were before.

Now you have the opportunity to rediscover yourself and build relationships that never require you to abandon yourself again.

Burnout

You kept achieving, helping, proving, and pushing until one day you realised you had built a successful life but no longer felt like yourself.

Now you can rebuild a life where your success no longer costs you your health, your peace, or your identity.

Midlife

Midlife didn't just change your body, it changed the questions you began asking about yourself and your future.

What felt like an ending became an invitation to rediscover who you are and intentionally rebuild your next chapter, a life where your future is no longer defined by change, but by choice.

Life Transition

Divorce. Empty nest. Retirement. Redundancy. The role that once gave your life structure disappeared, leaving you asking a question you never expected: 'Who am I now?'

This is your opportunity to choose your identity instead of inheriting one.

WHAT THIS IS

Most work you may have done before tries to heal you. This masterclass will teach you how to rebuild you.

Watching the masterclass from home

In this session I'm going to show you something most coaching, therapy, and self-help walks straight past.

Whatever brought you here, heartbreak, burnout, a role that ended, a body that changed, the work ahead is bigger than healing. It's the work of rebuilding the identity that was quietly surrendered along the way, and firing it toward who you're becoming.

This is the foundation of the REBUILD Pathway, the 12-week process I've developed over decades of lived and professional practice with men and women across the world.

In this masterclass I'll take you through the moment that changed my own life thirty years ago, the framework that grew from it, and the practical tools you can use the moment we close the call.

You'll leave this room as someone different from the person who joined it. That's the work.

TELL ME WHEN THE NEXT ONE IS

WHAT YOU TAKE AWAY

Four things you'll carry out of this room.

01.

A clear understanding of what actually rebuilds an identity

And why so much identity work stops at the surface. You'll see what rebuilds the self that gets lost when life asks you to become someone you were never meant to stay.

02.

The 1-1-1 Reset

A 60-second tool for pattern interruption you can use the moment we close the call, and every time something tries to pull you out of yourself.

03.

Three questions from the Identity Rebuild Assessment, walked through live

A real audit of who you're currently operating from. Many people meet themselves for the first time inside these questions.

04.

Clarity on whether the REBUILD Pathway is your next step

I'll open the founding circle of the 12-week pathway during the masterclass, at preferred terms, for a limited number of people.

This is coaching, rather than therapy or clinical treatment. When clinical support is the right call, I will say so clearly.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This masterclass was made for you if…

  • A life chapter took something from you, heartbreak, burnout, a role that ended, a body that changed, and the words I want to feel like myself again have quietly landed somewhere in you

  • You're inside a situation that's cost you yourself, and you're choosing to rebuild from within before deciding what comes next

  • You're years past a rupture, outwardly moved on, and you can feel something inside you still asking to be rebuilt

  • You're preparing for the next chapter and you want to walk into it as someone rebuilt, rather than someone recovering

  • You've done therapy or coaching before and you're ready for depth

  • You're ready to be changed by sixty minutes, rather than entertained by them

TELL ME WHEN THE NEXT ONE IS
Ellis Da Silva

ABOUT YOUR GUIDE

Ellis

Brazilian-born, UK-based. Certified personal trainer, trained in counselling skills and psychoanalytic theory, author of Rise Up. Founder of the REBUILD Pathway.

I've been doing this work, in one form or another, for nearly thirty years. The framework I now teach was born in a moment in front of a mirror at nineteen, in Brazil, and has been shaped through every chapter of my own life, and through the many people I've had the privilege to walk beside as they chose growth, authenticity, and rebuilding from the inside out.

I work from what I've lived. That's what I bring into the room with you.

“Elisangela delivers much more than just a class. She guides you through a deep, sensitive, and transformative process. I recommend it from the bottom of my heart.”

Sandra, June 2026

WHAT TO EXPECT

When

Announced soon. Register your interest and I'll email you the moment the date is set. Sessions run 60 minutes.

Where

Live on Zoom. The link will land in your inbox as soon as the date is confirmed.

Cost

Free. There's an opportunity at the end to join the founding circle at preferred terms, and the masterclass itself carries no obligation.

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RESET · REBUILD · RISE

See you in the room. Ellis x